Tuesday, February 7, 2017

Listen to Me


1 Corinthians 3:1-9     And so, brothers and sisters, I could not speak to you as spiritual people, but rather as people of the flesh, as infants in Christ. I fed you with milk, not solid food, for you were not ready for solid food. Even now you are still not ready, for you are still of the flesh. For as long as there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not of the flesh, and behaving according to human inclinations? For when one says, “I belong to Paul,” and another, “I belong to Apollos,” are you not merely human?
What then is Apollos? What is Paul? Servants through whom you came to believe, as the Lord assigned to each. I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God who gives the growth. The one who plants and the one who waters have a common purpose, and each will receive wages according to the labor of each. For we are God’s servants, working together; you are God’s field, God’s building.
Matthew 5:21-37   “You have heard that it was said to those of ancient times, ‘You shall not murder’; and ‘whoever murders shall be liable to judgment.’ But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister, you will be liable to judgment; and if you insult a brother or sister, you will be liable to the council; and if you say, ‘You fool,’ you will be liable to the hell of fire. So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift. Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are on the way to court with him, or your accuser may hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you will be thrown into prison. Truly I tell you, you will never get out until you have paid the last penny.
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away; it is better for you to lose one of your members than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away; it is better for you to lose one of your members than for your whole body to go into hell.  It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that anyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of unchastity, causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
“Again, you have heard that it was said to those of ancient times, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but carry out the vows you have made to the Lord.’ But I say to you, Do not swear at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is his footstool, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. Let your word be ‘Yes, Yes’ or ‘No, No’; anything more than this comes from the evil one.
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As we continued in these readings from 1 Corinthians and Matthew, we wondered at the roundtable about what is the best way to get people to hear you when you are saying something difficult.  There was concern that Paul might have been offending his listeners so much that they have stopped listening.  Calling them babies struck some as kind of like a playground taunt.
But any sentence that begins with, “And so,” might suggest that we ought to look back at the previous paragraph and consider the context.  So, we looked again at chapter 2.  Which we had to read in the context of chapter 1. 
We noticed Paul is kind of messing with the Corinthians.  He throws out a bomb, turning the idea of wisdom on its head, then he reels it back, and offers some conciliatory words that seem to stroke their egos a bit.  Then he goes and tells them they are, unfortunately, still at the baby food stage.  And so he’s spooning out the pureed stuff for their own good. 
Do they believe him?  My guess is that some do and some don’t.  It’s hard to strike the right note when you’re telling someone a thing they don’t want to hear.
We wondered about our own ability to look at ourselves honestly, to hear difficult words like these words of Paul and the words of Jesus and apply them to ourselves.  “There have been times in my life when I could hear such words as speaking to me,” said one, “and there have been other times when I would hear words like this and think that the person next to me really needed to listen carefully.”
And that is our biggest pitfall, I often think.  I am exceptionally good at seeing the speck in my neighbor’s eye.  I could do this professionally. 
The hardest thing is to be able to look in the mirror and see that I am a spiritual infant.  To see the harm I do by my anger toward a brother or sister.  To see how my jealousies, zealousness, and opinions in some areas fuel division.  To see how my carelessness in other areas hurts those around me. 

In light of such concerns, how does a preacher talk about these texts? 

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